Light to illuminate their own civilization

 Light to illuminate their own civilization, in November 2001 in Fuzhou, the first part of the family: the basic idea of the masters of their own process of writing this book, using some basic thinking The path into the book. In writing this part, I have a feeling of fantasy and magic: In a cold night, I am very comfortable in a hot bath to wash, wash away the day's fatigue, entered the room , opened the bedside light, soft light filled the room, picked up a book they like to read lying on Simmons. A, material conditions are good we happy? later when better material conditions, lack of pleasure sense is a fairly common problem, people may feel a lack of joy that the specific reasons for good and varied, the most fundamental problem is that we may be faced with an unprecedented economic operation mode, the lack of market economy and the basic idea . If the market economy requires an oval-shaped values, and our values are square, the reality and spirit have a serious mismatch, our hearts feel very bitter because of a loss, we fear being out of reality . to establish and market economy values, can provide us with the possibility of happiness .1, the market economy and make our lives rich 250 years ago, Adam. Smith said: The market economy is not the best economy, but it is We can find the best so far of the economy. After many years of ups and downs, from a planned economy, China has finally turned off into a muddy path the broad road of market economy, a society enters such a What one can reverse the pace of the market economy. Comparison of operation mode of market economy to create wealth benefits, so we only spent 20 years time, they created a natural economy, planned economy did not dare to imagine the material, made in China remarkable economic success, the public has been an unprecedented physical quality of life improvement, a shortage economy like we have been swept out of the general evil, and in the sun, it seems no longer dared still anonymous. in the market economy and society, many people realize the dream of the material world, compared with the past, we seem to live in heaven, in the physical environment. Remember when partners have had such a desire: have a fleece Trousers, winter is not able to wearing trousers, playing with more convenient; when the end of winter when the weather gets warmer, to have a Qiuyi Qiuku, lest ye be cool to wear unlined cotton thermal wear the pain. remember also that the desire childhood friend: summer When can eat iced watermelon; fantasy inside his yard has a water faucet, do not need to be far away in the alley every day to fetch water that one; fantasy has its own bathroom inside the house, do not need to run very far on the road a total The toilet is overcrowded. For today, this desire is all too simple. Many people do not know much clothing to wear what has been a point where we go; for their children, often find them inside the refrigerator to eat a watermelon; many people have moved into the house sets, a number of people have all the tap, and even inside each apartment has two or more bathrooms. experienced the era of planned economy, scarcity of people, facing an array of shops, Psychology may be able to produce a very practical sense. I remember as a child, often witnessed the neighborhood of the family the economic poverty. the poverty, under pressure in the distorted personality is easy to state, poverty, curb the human desire for a number of very beautiful and emotional, this is the poor state of the table as people's psychological mood is normal, the fire stick is almost temper to a, very small thing, it could trigger a domestic food and clothing problems sorrow, life can be said that after the rich, similar to the family rapid changes in the economy, the wealth gap, competition and other new living environment, changes in our thinking appears to lag, often soul loss, confusion, low self-esteem, occupied by the anxiety of being overwhelmed by the domination. do not know how many people can unashamedly declare themselves happy, when the material conditions of gradually better since then, people felt the ability of psychological resistance to wind and rain seemed to diminish. The biggest difference between humans and animals is that human happiness feelings of complexity. When people get rich , the willingness to return to the natural taste of the place is full of adventure, conditions, but may be very common to have some unpleasant feelings, such as the fear of accelerating the pace of life, better the lives of others envy pressure, depression, uncertainty about the future, the mere memory of past life, and so on. In this interwoven contradictions, many people have this or that idea, if they are attributed to a complicated idea into a question of whether the question: If we live in this world, often bitter feelings of psychological dominated by people survival value to the world what is it? Perhaps our spiritual world does exist a big problem, the cause of our lack of happiness, where is the source? our operation mode in which the social and economic change, and its large variation is alarming, this is a change in the nature of fundamental. all by the old society a Each resource you can consume a maximum number of (almost all of the merchandise purchased must hold ticket, the ticket is issued by the government according to the head), that society is line does not work behavior, the state and businesses are afraid you do not spend. just like the original in a car, you, the car is open to others, you do not have the power to decide where to open car, how to open, where to stop. Now This car is by your own hands, as long as you glad you can go anywhere, you can also stop the car to sleep, eat, drink, read the newspaper, playing a ball game. This should be a life long for most people, the problem is It also has cost, how do you act independently to choose the face of rapidly changing society, in terms of decision-making for the people is a tremendous psychological pressure. There is no doubt that people are people from the grasp of all, the transition to their own decisions on right is an improvement, but a different lifestyle needs different state of mind. the face of market economy, lifestyle, our basic philosophy, emotions, thinking style and social habits of the elements that form the spiritual world, to a large extent is still in the traditional state, this state is basically the spiritual world and the new economy is not integration. the real world and the spiritual world of the fracture time of erosion of our state of happiness, as opposed to the planned economy, we are not able to fully enjoy the freedom of the market economy happiness, the face of competition in the market economy, we may feel the psychological emptiness and fear, when you feel tired and want to rely on the back, you will find that nothing can make you trust, you Do not get on the ground he must stand up straight, had to move forward no matter what, you are in charge of your own mental world adaptation, so in many cases, the feeling of the new economic environment, more a helpless sigh, overwhelmed by depression and lack of concern for a sense of loss. Sometimes life really is like a barrel, the lowest piece of board decisions barrel inside their own how much water can be loaded in the new operation mode of economic bad feelings, affecting people's quality of life, and some even had a past life memory of .3, the traditional Do not talk to our criticism of the lack of the spiritual world? It is not easy! because we often come from the natural economy, carry forward the culture of this fantasy to the extreme, and that the material conditions, although not as Western countries, but our spiritual civilization are far superior to them, even dreaming to liberate the suffering people, Who can say that our spiritual the world's problems? we can for this dauntless spirit of joy, but the reason tells us that this was not true. When a bus is empty, that education alone can make a lot of people do it gracefully comity, if the tension in the crowded bus for a long time, certainly no way that people develop the habit of politely. and civilization with a modern market economy countries, many of our spiritual world is still in the darkness of the time, so that I do not know whether What will people unhappy, but this is indeed the real social reality, because we want to progress, we must point out their deficiencies. the market economy is a speaking order in society, only in good order to be able to bring efficiency and competitiveness , on behalf of the Corporation and other modern enterprise system requires a strict order of things, the order of market economy embodies the modern civilization. and we do not speak of social rules everywhere with the status quo, corruption and other big problem is not something I want to talk to, This book will mainly discuss the reality of ordinary people and philosophy of life, I do not think that ordinary people lack the real environment for a social order does not matter, ordinary people is an environmental cell, and the so-called cardinal each other. In my every on the way to work, there is a phenomenon often stung excited me, and if thought the future of our country, a phenomenon even let my emotions very low. When the road accident occurred in a fight or anything, onlookers flocked to several process can be ten minutes to let everyone enjoy this relish not the money of the When a traffic light post, people hurried trip are not willing to lose even a second, as long as no police supervision, will be an arrow in the gap from the vehicle channeling the past, the rules do not speak do not fear death, this time You will sigh, time is really money! be so lacking in our society, but efficient. in the school such a society where the elite gather, you also will be stimulated in many uncivilized phenomenon. When in class, through the corridor people often brazenly loud noise, can be described as hate dare dare laugh! a lot of people are they not teaching area should be quiet in order concept; school just brush off the white walls, a couple of days, the wall will appear one after another footprints, to judge from the height of footprints, many of which are difficult action masterpiece; in laboratories equipped with advanced equipment, inadvertently threw away the bread bags, milk cartons everywhere. may require students to actively participate in the teaching when the time You have to spend a lot of time and energy to inspire a come to class, your dress can not accurately judge people you have come to the classroom to take a bath or hall? what occasion should wear what kind of clothes should generally have a standard, he should know some contempt for their own society will deteriorate the dress has not mood? my female students said: when speaking in public, try to sound smaller, makes it appear to have bred, I do not think this is the problem of inequality between men and women, of course, can not say that men in public places no one else to loud noises . When I was visiting a hoist the flag ceremony at Tiananmen Square, my most exciting is the is lost, according to a spectacular degree of waste, this is definitely not a few acts, this is what kind of person? I suspect that those who made the solemn occasions of misconduct were, in fact, only the flag as a general lifting the Tiananmen Square the landscape, just as what is attractive in a crowd event, I doubt whether their hearts to lift the flag really high sense of patriotism. Similar things I have encountered in the Museum of History, in the face of history and needs heavy solemn public places, many visitors was no one talking and laughing, they look at these exhibitions, when thinking about? why the art form known as the quintessence of the decline of the drama, as these basic features of the slow-paced art form, with the slow progress The natural economic aesthetic complement each other. When winter fallow in rural areas north, people taking a dip in a pot of strong that tea, nibbling a peanut seeds peeling, leisurely listening ah, ah, ah the melody singing, even if it is cooked and the plot sing only two words a minute, are good to enjoy, fully reflects the production and artistic forms of complementarity. Indeed, when the last century, when 50-70 years, to mainly Romantic drama based arts difficult to reflect the revolution in full swing big lofty sentiments and aspirations, and able to demonstrate the kind of life is the most prosperous period of folk songs. the market economy comes after the drama and folk art forms such feelings are difficult to load new content to reflect the mood of ordinary people pop music in the living environment of rapid acquisition. any kind of economic operation modes must be matched with the spiritual world, or system is in a fault state, as a social system of individuals, if there is a material world and the spiritual world of the broken, unhappiness is a normal thing, breaking two of the world can not let us have a good feeling. not established and the market economy in the spiritual world, is the root cause of the lack of happiness. Perhaps we currently not yet reached the ultimate happiness, because the natural inertia of economy and planned economy seems to have been released to the greatest extent, and China's accession to WTO will speed up the process of the social market, the national economy may also be some big or small fluctuations in our system and the spirit of the current state have not experienced the most severe test of the market economy. Even today we seem to know what kind of market economy and the spiritual world of the future, the fault zone material and spiritual world to us The pain may also be larger. the social market economy has been able to allow our civilization, we are not the first country to achieve market economy and society, we can step on the shoulders of predecessors lit the lamp of civilization, so that light illuminate themselves, darn good material world and spiritual world of the fracture, so that we have in the new masters of their own viability of the economy: the idea that the way the market economy, both seeking to enjoy the warmth of life, but also to face the ups and downs of life, to open-minded way to face rapidly changing society, happy to live in this world. Second, the economic laws do apply to interpersonal relations, economic relations are the most basic social, accounting for the largest total amount of a relationship, many years, I have been pondering: the economy principle applies to the relationships it? apply to family relations? This may be a dare to take it out. Indeed, this question does not meet many of the references to the emotional approach of our nation, so the concept of the traditional culture shock may be too much, people might think that what I profane is often socially beneficial laws also apply to individuals. built on the basis of personality independent of each other the love of family, friends, the love of civilization should be one of the market economy. I do not deny that some sort of kinship relations beyond the material However, the material for the family relationship is still a basic orientation force. with interpersonal relationships may be able to apply economic laws by the traditional reluctance to accept, if applied to relationships in the family relations, the relations have become accustomed to the noble family of, nothing of the tradition said it might be difficult to accept that people may even think that tarnished the family relationship. In fact this relationship is also based on the material above the basic level, this concept meet the economic base determines the ideological superstructure of the basic philosophical propositions. must take the real cover up what makes us comfortable? try to promote these beautiful things too far-fetched is a good tradition and good values? Sometimes I feel particularly strong, harsh social climate may have originated from our Unlimited beautify the relationship, contrary to the objective world, the authenticity of the spirit required to run, so that extremes meet the reality there. unlimited landscaping played what role in relationships? our lack of attention to this issue, but good things to promote unlimited seems to have become our society's mindset, people seem to believe that such a good thing that there would be no harm anyway. unlimited landscaping relationships like we ate in the fine and one day of food, many of the original ingredients are rough exclusion, these ingredients do not have the body to the lack of nutrients. in social progress, and I heard a voice: one for the central TV station was too sensational show host contrived a false do not feel comfortable that their lack of realism, which is the voice of a people feel happy, people have begun to dare to demand the truth. In fact many laws of nature apply to human social relations, perhaps the emotional life of human beings have a unique, as only human beings can walk alone, like human like to use some of the more unique language to describe themselves, like their unique relationships to specific areas, refused to use some common sense to the human population. For example, we can only say that supply and demand applies to labor, not to say that pigs more pork prices will decline, more people will drop the price of labor, the dignity of our people lack taboo that one important reason for many people, because it hurts to say the human face. The reality is indeed the case, our overpopulation, leading to the decline in value of people, even in some special solemn occasions (such as visiting the holy places), managers face great crowd, kept in the shouted: No smile, no In economic life, people such resources for the labor force in the subconscious just like with other low-cost resources is no different. I forget when the developed cities) plant has such a semi-automatic machines, raw materials necessary to repeatedly place the workers in, and then taken out of stamping machines, this mechanical action, it is easy to fatigue and guard, almost every week fingers were slashed workers have taken place in bad accidents, just because the boss of compensation for workers injured is very low, so that your boss does not replace the machine that is more cost-effective, so the machine would permanently create value thundered, almost every week there are people who lack the fingers holding the arm sad to leave the factory. In the past, have chosen the backward mode of economic operation, so that we stay away from modern civilization, such an outcome the community there are many bad habits and practices is widespread bad habits of the typical weddings and funerals reflected. I said, bad habits do not know the origin of the name anyway, a lot of people under the guise of this or that, very keen to invite people around to participate in weddings and funerals etiquette (mostly expressed as dinner). social custom is to participate in rituals must pay several hundred dollars The gifts, weddings and funerals etiquette to become a business activities, the long run weddings and funerals with the previously sent out and then back to the money. As a money-making ritual function of weddings and funerals, as people more prosperous after the wedding and funeral rituals with the expansion, gentrification (the more senior participants in the ceremony along with the more cash gifts) the tendency to marry dead, sick, children born in years, and so can be a full moon make arrangements for ceremonial reasons. Such habits seem to be a huge black hole, so that we can not cast a magical escape. is clear, if not the driving force of economic interests, not someone willing to do, parents for their children spend too much, and to the future of their children, parents often lose the opportunity cost of self (I must stress do not deny them a love of nature). a lot of families, parents not only to control their children, but also control children's children, such a high opportunity cost of investment, high return is needed in the subconscious is a very normal thing, in the absence of the economic system, social security, child labor is the loss of life depend on their parents, children, parents must bear the enormous lack of filial piety risks, promoting filial ethics to maintain this family relationship is the objective of our traditional social and economic requirements. I do not think that dubbed the ? surface between the brothers and sisters that I do not care for the legacy of their parents, and an instant thing to fight there? In Western society, the parents for their children and do not have such a super investment, do their parents for their children only the most basic obligations, one adult to be self-sustaining. the market economy for the people's independence requirements also apply to family relationships, built on the basis of their independence of the family relationship, not necessarily tied to each other, should this affection input-output Poetry: models in the lives of many people must take one of the goals is to arrange their own children, to give their children what is left. how to achieve these goals? rights exchange and gray income is very realistic way, I arranged your I am in charge of the children into court, you have to arrange my child into your in charge of Trade and Industry Bureau. parents to their children's house, got married almost exhausted a lifetime for storage. reform and opening up a market economy people have more in the background of traditional thinking has not changed, people have higher levels of this demand, in order to settle their children to study abroad, and sometimes to commit crimes, therefore, in the bank executives, is arranged to send their children to study abroad through a breakthrough pulled into the water. In some smaller cities, this can not tell unknown deep-rooted nepotism Road, you can fight any of the justice and law, if our traditional family relationship is not Hu Hu so tired tired of stick together, creating a market economy needs the rule of law may be easier, at least reduce the number of unhealthy practices. I know a very avant-garde, sir, he strongly opposed her father remarried, I He is a giant mock theory of action on the dwarf, but his words make me food for thought. He said that in economically developed cities in China, the Chinese basically solved the problem of young people, the freedom of marriage, rarely hear parents must interfere with their children what happened to the news of marriage trouble, why we compare the smooth sweep of the feudal society, sources, eliminating the affection of children between parents adjunct model, young people choose their own behavior has an independent economic base, which is consistent with the economic base determines the superstructure of Marxism, ideological principles. He said he understands his father lost his wife alone after the situation, he acknowledged that his wife is the father of a new demand for a normal life, he said that if his father's property in order to interfere with the freedom of marriage of his father's dirty dog. To his mother's illness, he has to pay a lot, in the mother sickness 5 years he has been very tired, his work and life received a great impact. father is not able to completely independent economically, and even their houses are not independent, but he was looking for a no income rural women and our lives together, who said the body is not very good aunt, inevitable way to pay their daily living expenses, what if she was ill, or away before her father, stepmother he wanted not to continue to do maintenance obligations? He said he was not able to do high maintenance obligations to the endless and no regrets, my father remarried will greatly affect his daily life. He believes that if, as in Western societies, the father of marriage entirely his own things, he was able for the consequences of marriage are able to assume all its obligations, the basic obligation not involving his future to his level of civilization is concerned, there is no reason to control his father's marriage? current situation is that the father is not able to He actually served as the main body of the legal relationship of marriage, he was only a nominal subject of legal relations, this is a completely formalized subject, he had to interfere, he knew it was inhumane. The story is vivid, it reflects a truth, whether it is before their parents or Meishuozhiyan, or remarriage current plight of the elderly is very common, because the basic economic relations disarray, only people really to become the enjoyment of rights and obligations of an independent body to be able to gradually solve the social problems, the elderly and young people with talent can jointly by the light of freedom of marriage civilization bath. full of dynamic relationships and business management system to repeat itself? enterprise management mechanism in order to solve the reasonable question, we must establish a market economy needs a difficult to enjoy the benefits of a modern enterprise system. substance is one of the basic factors determine human relationships, relationships should also apply to economic laws. only time there in the past, it is traditional about the emotional patterns of deviation from physical reality into the the nothingness of the wrong way. realistically speaking we should recognize that the basic material orientation relationships, emotional, more basic approach is built on the basis of material things. The traditional way of thinking and emotional way, we seem more willing to beautifully deceive ourselves, I believe that relationships are more abstract fan their feelings. For example, a disaster, the government collected tax relief is the government's due diligence may be the basic duty of every Government to do this, we always talked about to talk about the runny nose, thanks to the party, thanks to the Government, the basic statement of formulas is in disaster relief may do better than we would think that this fire does not make sense how sensational, in fact, this sensational party and the government does not help the prestige and image. my fantasy relationship model is in accordance with the material principle to establish such relationships with high-definition rights and obligations, in this more realistic on the basis of strong emotion. those established on the basis of the false paradise-like relationships, often when the mother died yesterday, brothers and sisters Also keep in mind his father burst into tears vowed that spoke of brothers and sisters, a child close, never in contact with a big phenomenon is widespread, the reason is because the traditional practices can not address the interests of family relations, in the interests of the time did not show, we can like brothers, once the show will benefit the interests of ambiguous relationship between family have dropped to freezing point. Third, the limits of what Western civilization, choice behavior to play a considerable role, so that mankind has become the master of the planet. However, unique to humans, sometimes the world makes the human spirit , called the wealth, can sometimes be foolish to humans in order to maintain some backward civilization to mankind separated. in China's reform and opening up process, we consciously or unconsciously absorbed a lot of so-called Western civilization, is essential in the planned economy period impossible. So I thought the so-called Western civilization in a lot of things actually formed in the market economy, because we practiced a planned economy with only the two civilizations as big as the differences in the market economy-oriented process , we need to reexamine the boundaries of Western civilization. We habitually divided into Chinese characteristics of civilization and Western civilization, the civilization, the concept of civilization, this distinction has captured people's subconscious, become a mindset. reform and opening up later, our social and economic reality shows that the overall fragmentation of human civilization, thinking there might be a problem. Western countries in the world's first implementation of a market economy model of social market economy in the long run the model, the formation of a species of particular civilization, which is a market economy can basically meet the spiritual world. and to adapt to Chinese society in the long run the natural economy and planned economy model, but also the formation of the corresponding civilizations, this civilization and the spirit of a market economy Basic inconsistent, so that the two social civilization as well water and river water, with a very clear distinction, therefore, we assert: the Western civilization has fundamental differences. For example, in the operation of the market economy, need someone to market signal is dominated by capital gains of property-oriented direction, with the market economy to achieve optimal allocation of resources inherent function, this economic objective must therefore emphasize the independence of the individual interests and social independence, focus on achieving personal values is good for the macro-economic society must have a stable and transparent